Adolescence is hard, both for the teen and for the parents. Often times, the struggle seems to outweigh the reward and we lose sight of how beautiful and necessary this phase of life is. I work to help families enjoy this time instead of “just trying to get through it.”
I get that teens don’t always want to sit face-to-face and share their most vulnerable experiences. It’s awkward, it can be uncomfortable. So I like to offer “walking sessions” when appropriate. A “walking session” would simply entail meeting at the office, then walking the neighborhood as we talk about life’s challenges. It’s also a technique I encourage parents to try when they’re struggling to connect with their teens. You’re not going to get much communication at the dinner table, and don’t worry, it’s normal. And it might be time to try something new.
I have attended workshops and adolescence training sessions specific to working with LGTBQ+ youth and have a special interest in working with this population and their families. Adolescence is often difficult in its own right, and becomes increasingly challenging when navigating the complexities of sexuality and gender identity. My work with the client and their family is always geared toward acceptance and understanding.